In a rush to pass the specifically spelled-out bases, foreplay isn't even a priority — first base isn't something to brag about to your "bros."Moreover, the acts between first base and home can be extremely intimate, perhaps more so than sex.
This is especially key for women, who are in a relationship," not something to be shared with just a fling.
"It helps to focus on having fun throughout, instead of doing what it takes to reach the 'goal' of orgasm.
If you're not taking pleasure in the journey — or at least indulging some curiosity — then why keep going?
When sexual exploration becomes goal-oriented, satisfaction becomes secondary, and we risk missing out on the various kinds of emotional and physical satisfaction sex offers.